If there is one thing that has changed about me since last year, it's that I've taken more time and pride in dressing up and taking better care of myself. "Dressing up" and "putting on clothes" are not interchangeable, putting on clothes means to put on whatever is in your closet, regardless if it barely fits your body and if there are food stains from last night; as opposed to dressing up means to take that little extra time to make sure the fit is right and it does not make you look sloppy. You brush that hair and floss your mouth. You make sure you moisturize and smell hella good. I know I'm not a famous stylist nor the editor of a major fashion magazine, and who the fuck am I to tell people how to dress and live? Girl, please I ain't Oprah or Carson Kressley. I am simply just giving tips.
I had this entire paragraph complaining how people in America are on that slippery-slope towards hobo and trailer trash couture. And how we're getting fatter and fatter. Don't believe me?
www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSTRE50863H20090109 Click on that shit foreal. Isn't that sad? But I think standing on that soapbox and just complaining would be tasteless in my part, especially during these economic times when trends and clothing are the least of worries for most Americans; when millions of Americans are without homes and jobs. I do want to point out that you don't have to spend your entire bank account to look like a motherfuckin showstopper, simply put, just make sure your clothes fit your body and clean up a little bit. That's not important you say? Well, since millions of Americans are out of work, job hunting has been cut-throat. If you secure that job interview, you better look good. Are you going to have bed hair, wear flip-flops and not brush your teeth before a crucial interview? You better fucking not, asshole! You better have your best and professional clothes, brush that grill till it's blinding white and always have a firm handshake. (You learn a lot when you've gone through so many interviews).
I've read and heard that values on fashion and grooming are shallow, inane and frivolous. I've noticed over the years that I've increasingly search online for grooming products and clothes. My daily online routine involves looking at international street style sites and looking at Fashion Show photos from around the world. I look at model portfolios and runway shows on Youtube. A part of me thinks they're right. Who needs extravagant fashion shows and or just "fashion" (as opposed to just clothes) in general? But if I can find something enjoyable in fashion, grooming and style amid the grim state of our nation, well, why not? In a time where it seems everybody is losing, people need to look forward to something. Simply put, it's my escapism- to be clear, it's not entirely my escapism, vinyl collecting, watching "The Office" and guilty pleasure trash television and daily music listening are apart of it too. Some people play an instrument; some people cook, sew, chat, run, dance, watch t.v., shop or play video games. Do they need to play an instrument, video games or sew like their life depends on it? Maybe not, but doing those things act as a stress reliever, provide stability and most of all, add some joy to a persons life.
I'm not going to do a Favorite Things of 2008 in movies, music, books, television because I haven't seen or heard enough to make a list. But I think you know my favorite show of the year. So instead, I'll do a style inspiration post. To me personally, these people have charm and flair in the way that they dress and present themselves. And I have look to them for guidance and inspiration.
1. The Killers, most notably Brandon Flowers-
Prior to The Killers and hipster explosion, late 90's and early 2000's, rock bands such as System of the Down, Korn and Rage against the machine were clad in baggy jeans laced with metallic chains, messy hair and ripped shirts. An overall deconstructed and intoxicated look for teens who loved Hot Topic and rocking out to their music. For me, I never fully understood the appeal to that. There was many extremes in the late 1990's and early 2000's in teen pop music. I wasn't really into pop music of Britney Spears or into Korn. There were bands such as Blink-182 and Jimmy Eat World. I was into Weezer too, Brian Bell provided inspiration as well, with his whimsical and fresh look.
In my opinion, it was The Killers that brought chic and dressing up look cool (in 2004) without looking too square. In their first music videos (Somebody Told Me and Mr.Brightside), the quartet are rocking in suits with popping colors of red, gold, white and so much more. The video for "Mr.Brightside" is one of the most beautiful and best directed video in my view. The costumes and the bands suits would make the late Yves Saint Laurent, Christian Dior and Karl Lagerfeld proud. In later years, they've continued to showcase their talents and style through music videos and performances. I recently saw on Youtube a live performance of "Spaceman" in where Flowers is rocking with this lioness-esque shoulder pads and a massive golden feather lapel (?) He also rocks the same piece in the "Human" music video. I'm not sure whether Flowers is an avid safari hunter but he somehow manages to pull it off.

2. Beyonce Knowles-Beyonce is an unlikely choice for me, what inspiration can I get from this voluptuous diva? A lot. What I find very refreshing and inspiring is that amid the graveyard of skinny thin models and actresses; cracked out musicians (Britney Spears, Amy Winehouse, Lily Allen, Courtney Love); Beyonce stands out among them because she hasn't succomb to being stick thin, she yanks out hit after hit and it seems she has good on head on her shoulders. With this, she still manages to look stunning, from everyday shopping to red carpet. I will give this girl snaps. The media keeps talking about how Britney is making a comeback and MTV literally just handed her awards. While Beyonce has been on her game for years. "Single Ladies (Put a Ring On It)" is far more superior than Spear's "Womanizer" (I'll admit, it is catchy. But I like "Toxic" better). The style I get from Ms.Knowles isn't her curvy hips, plunging neck lines or her clothes really; it's the way she carries herself in person. This lady bleeds confidence, look at the way she's standing in the red carpet picture below in that stunning white and torquoise beaded gown. She got her hand on her hips and a little leg out, showing her heel. Even that lady in the sparkly blue gown is mezmerized by her. Dayum.
It seems to me there are two camps when it comes to Beyonce, you either hate her or love her. I used to be apart of the former but I've recently grown towards the latter. I think it was since
Dreamgirls and "Check on it" and "Freakum Dress" that I really started to like her. Also, I've been wanting to get my bling-bling on, so Beyonce has influenced some of that. But hold up, wait a minute, lets get one thing straight, I won't look like Queen Elizabeth up in this dojo. I'm keeping it simple and one neck chain at a time, please.

3. I originally wanted to choose three inspirations of 2008, The Killers (most notably Brandon Flowers) and Beyonce were my choices. But finding that elusive third person or group was difficult. I, being super indecisive, couldn't choose; there was the cast of
The Graduate, "Gossip Girl" (I don't watch the show but I've seen clips and they do dress impeccably.), Glenn O'Brien and his infinite wisdom of all things style. Alas, I'm left confused, frustrated, and empty handed. But then I noticed the regular people I see at UNLV, Las Vegas, San Diego and all those people who are photographed in those amazing street style sites give me the most inspiration. Just the regular people who don't have the millions of dollars and a stylist to dress them. Most likely they don't have the resources to buy and wear Hermes, Varvatos, YSL, Chanel, Jimmy Choo, and Marc Jacobs. I wish I had a camera and could just ask people who I thought dressed amazing and take their pictures. Maybe I should start at Las Vegas/ San Diego street style site? Not sure, I've thought about it though. So here's to the nameless, stylish people of UNLV, Las Vegas (sometimes), and street style sites.
And with that, I'm done. Took forever to finish this.